Monday, February 17, 2014
How I Lost 5 Pounds (Without Even Trying)
Keep in mind that weight is not the best measure of health, not by a long shot. If you're stepping up your fitness by changing your diet, increasing cardio and doing exercises to increase your muscle mass, weight will be the least effective way to measure your progress. Muscle weighs more than fat, but it takes up a lot less space. A better way to keep track of how you're doing is to take your measurements when you start your regimen and take new measurements every month (at the bust, waist and hips). This is where you'll notice a real difference. When I was at my most fit back in high school, I weighed 150lbs and I can't tell you how many people scoffed at me in disbelief when I told them my weight. I was solid muscle, and increasing lean muscle mass should be our goal instead of just being a certain size or weight. When your body is at its most healthy, it will settle into its natural shape, which we should accept and love unconditionally. (I just read a great article on this topic by @SophiaTripp: http://wp.me/p2H1ay-6D ) Here is a list of the recent changes I've made in my diet.
Protein
Increasing protein is essential for overall health, as well as any successful healthy diet (by the way, diet just means "what you eat" not "a restricted eating regimen" in my books). Protein helps you to feel fuller for longer, especially when combined with fiber and carbohydrates in your stomach. And when you're satisfied for longer, you're less tempted to snack later on. Have you ever eaten a whole meal and then felt hungry not even an hour later? Yeah. That's pretty annoying, and you end up eating more to quell that hunger, which is counter-intuitive to your goal of overall eating less calories. You don't want to eat a meal twice. Do it right the first time. Start your day with a protein-rich breakfast but don't be afraid to include carbohydrates -- you'll end up eating a complex meal that will give you energy to start your day. I picked eggs for this role. Cook them however you like, I prefer hard-boiled (with the yolks just a little bit soft still, mm perfection). I chose to skip the toast and pair them with a smoothie chock full of fruits and veggies. Which brings my to my next health element...
Fiber
There are two kinds of fiber: soluble and insoluble. Soluble fibers are those that dissolve in water and are found in foods like barley, legumes, fruits, oats and vegetables. Insoluble fibers do not dissolve in water and are found in things like the outer layers of whole grains, celery strings, and the hulls of seeds. The human body can't actually digest fiber, but it helps to move food through the digestive system (I know, gross) so you kind of need it to digest food properly and also to live. These fibers help regulate blood sugar and can significantly lower cholesterol levels. Regulating blood sugar levels is super important. Lastly, fiber makes you feel fuller since it absorbs water from the digestive juices in your stomach. So eating complex meals with lots of protein and fiber will increase satiety and contribute massively to your health.
A note on Carbohydrates
It bothers me to no end when people lambaste carbs as if they were the devil incarnate. Let's set the record straight here: you need carbohydrates to live, so eliminating them from your diet completely is a bad idea. Glucose is a critical source of energy for the body's nerve cells, and that includes the brain. Instead of avoiding carbohydrates altogether, we should be reducing our refined sugar intake. It has a huge amount of calories and absolutely no nutritional value, which is really what we should be focusing on. Carbohydrates are not the enemy; in fact carbs have 4 calories per gram while fat has 9 calories per gram. Make small changes like switching out regular white pasta to those high-fibre versions. This will prevent your blood sugar from spiking like it would with regular pasta, and keep you feeling fuller for longer. Choose bakery bread that has lots of whole grains in it. Switch your white rice to brown rice, or long grain rice. Or even better yet, change up some of your favourite recipes to use quinoa instead of rice. It's higher in protein and more nutritious.
The general rule of thumb for better eating is to choose foods that have a high nutritional value. Eating a variety of nutrient-dense foods will ensure you're getting all the essential stuff like vitamins, minerals and other good things your body needs. Instead of regular potatoes, use sweet potatoes or squash. Instead of chips for a snack, choose popcorn since it's much lower in fat and has a high fiber content. Instead of candy, eat dried cranberries or mangoes for something sweet. Whenever possible, pick fruits and veggies for your snacks. And increase your water intake! If you use a refillable water bottle, aim to empty it twice a day. Water helps every single one of the cells in your body to do the things it needs to do. Stay away from juice and pop, since it's just sugar water. You can still have it, just make it once in a while instead of all the time. With that in mind, here are some meal ideas you can add into your rotation. Basically, with every meal or snack I eat, I'm thinking about how I can make it more filling and nutritious. Many good choices over time add up to a healthy body and mind, just like many bad choices over time lead to health problems. People that are overweight and unhealthy didn't get that way overnight, and you won't lose body fat overnight either -- so stick with it and remember your ultimate goal of becoming healthier. You can do it!
Meal Ideas:
Breakfast
2 hard-boiled eggs + a smoothie (berries, baby spinach, water or juice, with a few goodies thrown in like hemp hearts, ground flax seed or chia seeds)
Greek yogurt topped with honey, berries, almonds/granola
Oatmeal (not the instant kind) topped with cinnamon, honey, flax seed, sliced almonds
Lunch
Tuna salad on toast, with an apple or some other fruit
Baked salmon with a spinach salad
Vegetable soup (with good stuff like lentils and beans. Here's where a home-made soup would be best, but Campbell's makes a really great hearty vegetable soup with lentils, carrots and barley)
Dinner
Whole wheat pasta with lean ground beef in tomato sauce
Chicken fingers (I get mine from the Poultry Place, they are so freaking tasty as well as all-natural, home-made and hormone free) with a spinach salad
Roasted chicken with long grain rice & lentils and roasted sweet potatoes
Snacks
Dried cranberries
Dried mangoes (amazing)
Nuts, unsalted (sunflower seeds, almonds, walnuts, pumpkin seeds; avoid peanuts because they totally suck)
Popcorn
Pretzels
Sunday, December 8, 2013
An Essay on Child-Rearing
In my current voluntary-distraction-from-exams phase, I've discovered and have been reading extensively The Worst Things For Sale -- which is hilarious, and I highly recommend it. I do this in stores often, especially when visiting the States; I pick up items and scoff at whoever thought a particular item would be a good and necessary thing for people to have. I usually take pictures. And I am usually the only one who finds it funny. But now I know I'M NOT ALONE. I'm digressing here.
In perusing this hilarious website I happened upon an entry regarding a book about "discipline" entitled How To Raise Up A Child. I was a bit scared of what I would find in the reviews. But I am glad I decided to look into it, because this is the exact reason I am getting into the profession of social service work. Reading the reviews on the Amazon item page was also something I dreaded -- thinking there would only be reviews from those singing its praises, testifying about how fantastic the Pearls' methods were, and how it worked for them. To my relief, there seemed to be more warnings to not purchase the book than there were reviews advocating its use. Faith in humanity slightly restored.
Then in one review someone mentioned Lydia Schatz. I looked it up and was amazed that I didn't hear about this story -- or maybe I had, and never looked into it further and simply forgot. Either way, stories like this will now stick in my mind forever as evidence to bring forth whenever someone naively expresses the belief that child abuse doesn't happen anymore. That people have moved past it. Or that everyone knows it's wrong.
Anderson Cooper (bless his gorgeous heart) and another reporter from CNN profiled the Schatz case as Lydia's adopted parents were being sentenced. They spoke with an attorney as well as the authors of the aforementioned ridiculous book, Micheal and Debi Pearl, in this news segment.
What infuriates me is their insistence that abuse can be helpful. That it's beneficial to break a child's will. To hit a toddler until they stop whimpering, for as long as that may take. This is the mindset that killed Lydia Schatz; why? Because she mispronounced a word for fuck's sake. A great blog post with quotes from the book can be found here.
This book is dangerous material for anyone who isn't familiar with child development, which is unfortunately the reality for a lot of fundamentalist religious people. When the only education you get is Bible-based, you get a very ancient methodological basis for your life. We've learned a lot about people since the Bible was written, and this needs to be taken into account. A parent needs to know what behaviours are appropriate for children from ages 0-10 at the very least. They need to know what to expect as normal, childish behaviour -- that which any child of their age would do. Certain behaviours are exploratory, or for fun -- because that's what children do. They explore their fucking worlds by reaching for things or putting things in their mouths, and we should only stop them when their safety is in jeopardy (or maybe when we don't want them drooling on our $600 phones). And that's just it -- you can stop them, and explain why you stopped them. Kids are a lot smarter than we give them credit for. Explain your reasoning in a way they can understand. Distinguish this behaviour from purposefully defiant behaviour -- that which is meant to test your boundaries. Or if they're older, it might be to purposefully piss you off (some kids think this is really funny, and can you blame them? You probably look hilarious when you're mad).
A few years ago I was shopping in a large store with a friend and her then 3-year-old son. As a single mother she was able to be very precise in her disciplinary methods (not abusive, for the record). She could practice consistency and control to an amazing degree because she was always with her son, all the time as a mom who worked from home. When she and I stopped to look at something, her son took off running at full tilt towards the far end of the aisle. I of course expressed some slight concern, but she didn't look bothered -- she just said "Oh, he knows to stop where I can see him." I looked over and was astonished to see him stop abruptly at the end of the aisle, turn around and smile his adorable huge smile at us both. This kid is three years old and he knows to stop running before he gets into an area in which his mother cannot see him. How did he know this? She explained it to him. It's about safety. If she were to not explain that part to him, and just do the whole "because I said so!" then it becomes about control. Then, of course he is going to run away where you can't see him and watch you freak the fuck out because it's hilarious. Don't just expect your kids to listen to you about everything, all the time, without explaining why. Again, kids are pretty fucking smart and a lot smarter than we give them credit for. It starts early, too -- when your kid throws a toy off his high chair onto the floor and watches you pick it up for him, over and over? That is hilarious, and he realizes he can control you in that way. Don't slap him for it -- just don't pick up the toy, and he will eventually learn that when something falls off of a surface, it's then out of his reach, so maybe he shouldn't throw it away if he actually wants to play with something while he's in his high chair.
I'm rambling now, but I'm trying to make a point -- there is a better way to make your child understand the world than hitting them. Spanking was not a disciplinary method in our household. From a young age my mom tried her very best to instill favourable personality traits in us through basic Christian teachings (to me they're just basic guidelines for being a good person, but whatever): be nice, treat others how you would wish to be treated, don't do things that are self-serving/don't be selfish, share and give back to others, don't be concerned with things like revenge, practice unconditional love and forgiveness, and other basic things that amount to: don't be an asshole, and do the right thing because it's the right thing to do. And while these traits may have led to me being a timid doormat who took a whole lot of shit from other kids growing up, I'm glad I got past that stage to become a person who actually cares about others (and increasingly, myself).
Spanking was a rare thing for my mom -- it usually happened when she was not okay, and only when we did something really bad, and when we were at the age where we could be snotty, purposefully talking back and occasionally being jerks to each other and her as well. She hated that because it showed disrespect, and probably made her think she didn't do a good enough job raising us, which was probably a scary thought for her. We always were still sent to our rooms, and we always talked about it after. And we didn't just get the "it's for your own good, so quit your fucking whining" spiel. I got the "it hurt me to do that to you, but your actions were hurtful to me too. When you talk to me like that it feels like you don't care about me, and that you don't love me. If you love me, act like it in everything that you do." This still is something I practice today. Don't say something that can hurt someone's feelings even when you're angry. Saying what you mean and meaning what you say is a big deal that sounds a lot simpler than it is. If we're fighting and you are so frustrated with me that you (for example) tell me to just go, get the fuck outta here, then I'm fucking leaving end of story. But later when you say "Why did you leave? Well I only said that because I was so mad..." So if you didn't fucking mean it, don't say it motherfucker! Anyway.
In short, abuse still happens. And it is usually because a parent does not know of any other method of discipline. Or they may have half-heartedly tried a more gentle method that didn't produce results that they were satisfied with. Probably because they tried it too late, or weren't consistent enough. Good disciplinary basics dictate that the consequence must come directly after the unwanted behaviour, and it must be consistent. Otherwise the child cannot connect the two events as being related and therefore it will be pretty fucking hard for them to learn that a certain behaviour will have certain consequences. You can't let them sometimes get away with it. Explanations for your discipline are always necessary -- make it perfectly clear why what they did is wrong or unacceptable behaviour.
There is always a better way than hitting/spanking/striking with objects. It should absolutely not be your go-to method of discipline for everything. Regardless if the Pearls have had what they measure as "success" in their methods, and regardless if they don't think that they take it too far, it is a dangerous line to skirt. You're potentially creating so many more problems in this little person that they will carry for the rest of their lives. To recommend that you hit a child until you break their will is not okay. Should we hit grown-ups until their wills are broken? No. So let's not do it to our kids, alright?
Friday, April 27, 2012
Banana Chocolate Chip Muffins
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Easy, yummy Tomato Sauce with Beef.
I also add some canned/jarred pasta sauce to this recipe, because otherwise it isn't really saucy enough for me. And so, this recipe is a wonderful mix of home-made and pre-made. I hate to take things out of cans or jars, heat them up, and just eat them as is. This might be because we didn't really do this at my house growing up. I was fortunate enough to have a mom that valued eating fresh food, and so hardly anything came out of a can--even our holiday cranberry sauce was made on the stove, a simple mixture of sugar, water and fresh cranberries boiled down into a mush. This is probably why I prefer to add things to pre-made sauces and make it my own. Or you could see it as using these convenience items as helpful aides in the kitchen, since I don't have time to be simmering a pot of home-made sauce for hours. ANYWAYS.
I really love this recipe. I've been meaning to write a post about it for quite some time. I've made it at least four times in this past month alone, and every time, I think "Crap! Should've taken a picture for the blog," including this time. Apologies for that, too.
It's really quite simple to put together. The ingredients are staple items which you would usually have lying around, looking uninteresting and lonely in their natural state. However. Don't be fooled by all this normalcy. Because inside each of these ordinary, boring ingredients is the potential for something delicious. Beef. Onions. Garlic. Tomatoes. You can make these ingredients sing. They'll mingle and make love in a hot pan, and conceive delicious flavours for you to enjoy.
Alright, enough of that business. Let's get down to it.
Ingredients
olive oil
1/2 of a white onion
3 cloves of garlic
1 lb ground beef
2 tbsp tomato paste
1 large beefsteak tomato
1/2 a can of plain pasta sauce
3 basil leaves
A pinch of Italian Seasoning (I only cheat a TINY bit here because I don't have any other nice fresh herbs and spices. This does the trick.)
Salt and pepper
Method
Do my fancy water-boiling trick (which isn't really all that fancy. It's more time-saving than fancy) and put some pasta on the boil. Since this sauce is quite chunky, I like to use pasta that is in shapes instead of long strings. Shapes like rotini or penne are great for holding lots of thick, chunky sauce. I've preferred using whole-wheat pasta lately since it's extra filling (and you won't be eating a whole bowl of simple carbohydrates, which basically turn into sugar in your digestive system), BUT HEY. It's your thing. Do what you wanna do.
Meanwhile, heat some olive oil over medium-ish heat in a large skillet. Turn it down if you need to. I always do, since my garlic tends to burn in a matter of minutes on medium. I go for medium-low. Chop some garlic and throw it in. Let it simmer while you chop your onions. Throw them in the pan too. Add some salt and pepper and let the onions simmer for a few minutes until they get soft. Add the ground beef and brown. Drain any extra fat in the pan. Add the tomato paste and stir it around so it gets on most of the beef. The pan might seem a little dry right now, but that's alright.
Let it all simmer while you chop your tomato, then throw it in and mix everything up. Your tomato should add enough liquid that all these ingredients can mingle sufficiently. If it doesn't, add a little water to the pan. But not too much. Add your basil and/or Italian spice mix. Stir occasionally. Let it simmer for a few minutes, until the tomatoes look soft, and then add the pasta sauce. Turn the heat right down at this point, almost to the lowest setting. You want the sauce to heat up and obtain the flavour you just coaxed out of all the lovely ingredients in the pan. You don't want the sauce to boil and bubble and leave streaks of sauce on your walls that you'll still be finding weeks later. Heat slowly. Let it simmer for at least five minutes. My pasta had to sit in the pot all drained and dry, waiting to get sauced. It's worth it if you have the time. If you don't, it isn't the end of the world.
Taste the sauce. If you like the way it tastes, throw in the pasta and mix it around and call it a day. If it's not done yet, let it be, or adjust your seasonings if you like. This recipe makes enough sauce for approximately 2-1/2 cups of prepared pasta, which will feed two people twice. Or four people, once. It makes a bunch, how about that. Bonus of cooking in large amounts: it's even better the next day.
Note: Feel free to experiment with the amount of tomatoes you add, and even the type. Last time I did this recipe I used some grape tomatoes I had in the fridge that weren't getting eaten and were about to go soft.
And there you have it. An easy yet delicious and filling meal that comes together in under 20 minutes.
Hooray for minimal effort in the kitchen!
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Cheese Ravioli with Spinach and Tomato
This recipe was thrown together and finished in about 15 minutes, making it great for someone without much time. It was full of flavour and just as satisfying as one of those frozen skillet meals you can get in a bag, but this version is obviously better in every way: it's cheaper, healthier, tastier. The only part I cheated at was the ravioli, and frankly, I trust Ontario Ravioli Ltd to deliver a well-made product. I know where it comes from.
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| Please excuse the picture quality. There was still a bunch of steam in the way. |
Ravioli with Spinach and Tomato (makes 2 servings, measurements are approximate)
1 cup fresh or frozen ravioli
1-1/2 cups baby spinach leaves, stems removed
2 medium-sized tomatoes
3 cloves garlic
3 basil leaves
2 tbsp olive oil
salt and pepper to taste
Place a large pot of salted water to boil (boil the water in a kettle first if you're really strapped for time). Boil the ravioli, stirring occasionally, following package directions for timing.
Meanwhile, in a large skillet, heat the olive oil over medium heat. Finely chop the garlic (or mince it, or bash it with your knife) and toss it into the heated oil. Stir and let it cook for a few minutes. Dice the tomatoes roughly, and add them to the pan. Add salt, pepper and basil leaves and cook for about five minutes, until the tomatoes are soft. Finally, add the spinach leaves and stir frequently for two minutes or until the leaves are wilted.
Drain the ravioli well and add it to the skillet. Toss it all together and adjust your seasonings if necessary. Dump it all into a bowl and top with Parmesan cheese if desired (I found it unnecessary); stuff into face.
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Sometimes, it's okay to cheat.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011
Peach & Berry Crisp

Wednesday, August 10, 2011
Food Challenge!
The phrase "food challenge" evokes images of Kitchen Stadium, all fog and lights and shiny knives while opposing chefs stare menacingly at one another.
This isn't like that. This is a challenge where we can set goals regarding the food we buy for ourselves and how we eat. I'm aware that I'm a little behind in officially starting, but I unofficially challenged myself a few weeks ago to start eating healthier, and this has expanded into the following goals:
- take advantage of the glut of fresh fruits and vegetables that are in season,
- hone my cooking skills so as to be able to comfortably experiment with and incorporate new flavours into my meal rotation,
- save a bit of money by buying my fruits and veg from a local farmer's market,
- be smart about buying in large quantities, and utilize my freezer for its awesome preservation abilities,
- lose a teensy bit of weight.
The last one has already started to come about, mostly by accident. I don't actually own a scale--though I should probably get one--the only reason I know is that I was told recently that it looks like I've "lost a bit of weight". It's not my primary goal, hence why it's the last on my list, I'm just aware that it's an inevitable consequence of eating a diet that's lower in fat and sugar and higher in whole grains and fresh things.
In last week's grocery run, I will admit that there were more frozen and pre-packaged food than I would normally buy--however someone in my household is currently going through recovery after a some minor surgery, and "want" foods became "need" foods for comfort reasons. These include some frozen pizzas, toaster strudels (my weakness! which I have successfully resisted! go me!), frozen waffles, and some pizza pops. These items are in my "occasional treats" category, and I've been pretty good lately at reaching for healthier alternatives for snacks than constantly having these same things. And if I do reach for some frozen waffles, I make sure to have them with a bunch of fruit on top and a glass of milk. Like this!
But for the most part, the grocery list has been successfully tweaked: bottles of pop, bags of chips, and frozen pre-prepared foods are no longer seen as necessities like they used to be. This time last year, I was at the same point, except I gradually let these things become essentials. I let my dietary standards slide and got into a vicious cycle of valuing convenience over nutrition, and settled into a routine of bad habits. Now that we've gone backwards, we're feeling much better about how we're eating, and surprised at how little we find ourselves wanting these things. Chips? What are those? Now, if I want some chips as a snack, it'll be whole grain tortilla chips that I can eat with salsa. Ideally the ones with flax seed in them, they're awesome. Because salsa counts as a vegetable dish, right? Totally.
Last night's dinner was especially successful; I was tempted to just throw in a frozen pizza but I caught myself--I remembered that I had a whole crisper drawer chock FULL of fresh green veggies to use up. And so I made a whole-wheat pasta dish with three different kinds of vegetables and some chicken. And it was awesome.
Oh, and today I stopped by a farmer's market on the way home, but it was closed. Boo.
Something I still need to work on: actually bringing food from home to eat while I'm out at school, every freaking time. I tend to underestimate my need for a meal being at school for 4-5 hours at a time, and I assume I'll be fine--but I never am. I have a change purse that is almost always full, which allows me pretty much whatever I want from a vending machine. So I need to stop that.
So that is where I'm at, a few weeks after making a conscious decision to eat better. Special thanks to my good pal Melissa over at BrokeTO for the inspiration to share my dietary and budgeting goals for the month of August. Follow her $100 Grocery Challenge and stay updated here (original post with instructions here)!

